{"id":3454,"date":"2016-08-01T14:14:18","date_gmt":"2016-08-01T18:14:18","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.john-fallon.com\/?p=3454"},"modified":"2016-08-02T16:57:17","modified_gmt":"2016-08-02T20:57:17","slug":"three-ways-the-shelter-experience-has-changed-me","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.john-fallon.com\/?p=3454","title":{"rendered":"Three ways The Shelter experience has changed me&#8230;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.john-fallon.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/shelter-ogo.png\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-3180 \" src=\"http:\/\/www.john-fallon.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/shelter-ogo-1024x443.png\" alt=\"shelter-ogo\" width=\"601\" height=\"260\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>As you may know my directorial debut THE SHELTER <a href=\"http:\/\/www.theshelterfilm.com\/?p=652\" target=\"_blank\">has locked domestic distribution and will be released in North America this coming November in theaters and on VOD via Uncork&#8217;d Entertainment<\/a>. I haven\u2019t commented about it here yet, because being that this is my Personal Blog, I wanted to wait until I had something further to say than \u201c We locked it, thanks to everybody who helped make the film happen and everybody who supported me\u201d (which I do earnestly mean by the way). So I finally came up with something. Here are three ways how the challenge that was THE SHELTER has bettered me as a person.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Producing:<\/strong> When it\u2019s \u201cyour movie\u201d and you\u2019re responsible for everything, even other people\u2019s mistakes that go down under your watch &#8211; it\u2019s an all new ball game. I had co-produced before on other people\u2019s movies, mostly pre-prod\/prod stuff,\u00a0 but that was NOTHING compared to what I had to go through on this one. Once the shoot was done it was obstacle after obstacle after obstacle and to say I learned so much the hard way would be an understatement. As I type this, 2 years since we wrapped, I\u2019m still going through hurdles when it comes to the bureaucratic nature of making a film (Note: hurdles have since been conquered). On that, even though I wasn\u2019t smiling the countless times I got kicked in the face for the last two years, I can now safely say that I am happy all of these challenges went down as I will bring that knowledge and a stronger shield to my next picture. Every director should know the ins and outs of producing a film IMO \u2013 you got to understand the machine fully to operate it to its max! So although it put me through the ringer, almost broke me and tested my tolerance level like mad \u2013 the knowledge I got out of this experience was priceless. They didn\u2019t teach me that shit in film school that&#8217;s for sure! And yes I have an all-new respect for the Producers of the world.<\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_3472\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-3472\" style=\"width: 600px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.john-fallon.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/IMG_0298.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\" wp-image-3472\" src=\"http:\/\/www.john-fallon.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/IMG_0298.jpg\" alt=\"On set talking a scene out with Michael Pare.\" width=\"600\" height=\"387\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.john-fallon.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/IMG_0298.jpg 639w, https:\/\/www.john-fallon.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/IMG_0298-300x193.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 600px) 100vw, 600px\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-3472\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">On set talking a scene out with Michael Pare.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p><strong>Change of reaction:<\/strong> One can be strong, but after taking hit after hit after hit, you start to lower you gloves and begin to react to curve balls in a bitter and discouraged fashion. Through making The Shelter, I had to learn to \u201croll with it\u201d, to see the positive in the negative \u201clike gaining knowledge by way of hardships\u201d and to have faith that every misstep, every sucker punch was for a greater good that maybe I didn\u2019t see at the time. The amount of Festivals that turned me down, people who I thought would back me up but didn\u2019t, the two forward \u2013 ten steps back rinse and repeat routine &#8211; I was focusing on that drivel instead of: The Festivals that did take us on, the people that have been there with me through thick and thin or the progress (no matter how little) that was achieved. So I am grateful for that, as that change in \u201creaction\u201d is now something that I try to apply in my everyday life. I\u2019m not perfect at it just yet, I slip now and again, but I am now even more self aware, hence when I get hit, I make a conscious choice to try to NOT react in a negative way, to take it on the chin and to see the positive within the dire situation instead. Looking back, getting discouraged or bitter only made the battle harder than it already was \u2013 nothing was gained from reacting in that fashion. NOTHING. Lesson learned and applying it is still a work in progress. One thing is for sure, I am a much stronger and evened out person due to it.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Spirituality:<\/strong> I was raised Catholic for the bulk of my life \u2013 had to pray at school &#8211; all that jive.\u00a0 But my problem with organized religion has always been the evil that men did in its name (and in terms of Christianity, totally negating what Christ was all about in the process, but that&#8217;s another convo). Hence, none of it is black and white for me \u2013 it\u2019s grey. THE SHELTER sent me on a new route though. Being that the film does sport Biblical inspired elements; I did lots of research on the subject matter. Through that, I became fascinated with the history behind it all; hence I started devouring books outside of the usual tomes, like the Hebrew Bible for example or the writings I could find by the &#8220;Church Fathers&#8221; (ancient Christian writers also known as the Apostolic Fathers). Today, when I travel (specially in Europe), I visit old churches and am completely fascinated as to the beauty before me and the history behind said locations. The many texts that I have since been introduced to coupled with the countless left field happenings that befell me throughout the writing and post production process has guided me a in a direction i.e. what works for me spiritually \u2013 my own path if you will. And it&#8217;s a trip to walk it!\u00a0 At the same time, I now have a new kind of hobby and I am having lots of fun researching and discovering.<\/p>\n<p>And that\u2019s pretty much it, what I have gained from all of this thus far. It&#8217;s been a rock and roll two years that&#8217;s for sure! Thanks for reading! 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